Attracting a woman is really not as hard as you may think it to be. The first and foremost thing about attracting a woman is having confidence. Without confidence in yourself, you will find it hard to even approach a woman to talk to her, without even thinking about asking her for a date.
When you are nervous, words do not come out as confident and she will pick up on it. So the first thing you need to do is build your confidence.
How do you build your confidence up. One way to build confidence is by telling yourself how good you are every time you accomplish something. It does not have to have anything to do with a woman. Remember, no one can do a better job of being you than you and that makes you number one for any woman you may attract.
For instance, if you build a porch on the back on your house and it ends up looking really good. Tell yourself how nice it looks and praise yourself. Show it to neighbors and marvel over it. Soon you will start feeling better and more confident.
When you approach a woman, remember that confident feeling and know that you can also carry on a conversation with her. You are not judged as harshly as you judge yourself. We are always harder on ourselves. The woman you are approaching is more worried about what you are thinking of her and if she is handling herself in a way that you will like. So hold your head high and go right up to that woman and start a conversation with her. Asking her for a date will get easier after talking with her.
If you fail, don’t worry about it. Just keep working to build your confidence and you will get better at it. Learn from your mistakes. The more women you approach the more confident you will become.